Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Susanna Woodliffe with the following comment:
Susannah is my husband's 5th gt. aunt. We visited St Helen's last year on our honeymoon, but hadn't researched as far as her marriage, and were really only looking to find Kendalls and Surfleets (her parents) in the grave yard. Her brother, Thomas Kendall, is infamous in New Zealand. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_KendallI've been researching family history for nigh on 40 years, and am too, despairing of the people who ask for information but never bother to say thank you. My family trees are not available via me on~line, for that reason. It's such a disappointing outcome, given how it was when I started out, when people *had* to be nice to each other... *sigh*